Uprising Community – The Success Story of Leon Trance Candelario by Charlene T. Dumaran
“We are not supposed to all be the same, feel the same,
think the same, and believe the same.” The LGBT Community plays a big part in
promoting gender equality because everybody deserves to be treated equally no
matter what their gender or sex may be. LGBT stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual,
and transgender and now with the added Q which refers to those who are still in
the process of questioning their sexuality, changing LGBT to LGBTQ. They are the persons who work hard and show
others that they belong in this society, trying to inspire others to reveal
themselves so they can lead a better and more successful life. That is why Leon
Trance Candelario did his best to finish his education and be a successful
person.
Leon was born in Tangalan, Aklan on January 6, 1959. He is
the son of Leon Ibabao Candelario and Remedios Tibulan Trance. His siblings are
Fedelma, Lorelei, Silverio, Roy, Marilyn, and Melchor. He graduated his
elementary in Tamalagon Elementary School (now Tamalagon Integrated School). He
then studied and graduated his secondary level in Aklan College (now Aklan
Catholic College). He took B.S. Pharmacy in the University of Sto. Tomas and
took B.S. Nursing in St. Gabriel College.
In his younger years, he already knew that being gay is hard
so he strived in his studies to finish his education. “I believe that being
educated is already an edge for a gay person in this country. It is one way of
being accepted by the community. I think that the LGBTQ community is actually a
growing community maybe because a lot of us has come out and admitted to the
world that we are different when it comes to sexual preferences. You cannot
please everyone, though. They will always have something to say but it doesn’t
bother me. I always thought that those people who “look down” to LGBTQ members
are narrow-minded people.” Leon shared.
After college, he worked abroad – 8 years in Saudi Arabia
and 6 years in Papua New Guinea. “I only went home for good when my mother got
sick and I had to take care of her. That was also when I decided to open a
drugstore. I was in my late 30’s when I started my business. I did not have any
problems when I decided to open my drugstore because I already have experiences
when I worked abroad that’s why it did not take me too long to decide to open
it. I just looked for a good place to open my business.” He recounted. “My
pharmacy was a tribute to my mother. She has grandchildren in London, England
and they call her ‘granny’ – the equivalent of ‘lola’ here in the Philippines.
That is why I named my business Granny’s Pharmacy,” he revealed.
“Like any other businesses, it is a ‘touch and go’ at first
meaning, I made wrong moves and decisions but eventually, as it goes on, I
became adept and knowledgeable to the everyday perks of my business,” he stated.
Granny’s Pharmacy is now on its 18th year and
hopefully, it will have many more years of serving the community.
Just like in everything else, there are advantages and
disadvantages in being a member of LGBTQ community. “I always thought that LGBT
members are family-oriented. They always take care of their family. Gay people
usually excel in what they do. However, most of us are also gullible, with the
tendency to go crazy when in love and some gays have become laughing stocks of
the community but life must go on and as the saying goes, ‘he who plants
kindness gathers love’,” he said.
“I don’t believe in gender classifications. It may be LGBT
or heterosexuals. All of us have the right to live in this world and be treated
equally but being gay is a challenge. A challenge as to how you are going to
live your life, if you will be productive, and if you will be an esteemed
member of the community. My advice to young gays? Be educated! Education could
be the best weapon for any gay who aspires to be accepted and respected by the
people and the community,” he smiled as he left a message for the young members
of the LGBTQ community.
(As published in JIS Busay SY 2017-2018 ish)
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